After some research I was shocked to see so few number of males in the nursing field. The Bureau of Labor Statistics reported the number of registered male nurses was only at 5.6 percent by the end of 2005! I would think that with so much opportunity in the medical field we should see an increase in entrants in the coming years. Don’t you think? Today’s guest shares HIS story as a nurse. He has excelled in a career as a nurse overcoming many obstacles, here is his story:
Hi. I’m the nurse. Have we met?
Maybe you’ve seen me on television?
I’m usually portrayed as the female subordinate who wears that funny white cap and white skirted outfit. I’m there to simply take the doctor’s orders.
Or I’m the ‘sexy’ one who wears the same white outfit, except it barely covers my exposed body parts and I’m not really here to tend to your ‘health’.
Maybe you’ve seen me on the Internet?
I do my best to emulate my television personalities throughout the world wide web. I’m usually the punch-line of most jokes or trying to sell you some scrubs.
Every once in a while you might find some useful information on nursing careers, nursing schools and nursing jobs, but their not the most popular.
Maybe you’ve seen me in the doctor’s office? Or the hospital?
I have this tough look of stress on my face. I have this tendency to snap at you, or be curt with you and I don’t even know I’m doing it. I also give the impression of not doing a very good job sometimes.
It troubles me time and time again when I tell people, “I’m a nurse”.
I usually get that pause in the conversation, and that look of bewilderment. At this point I get one of two initial reactions:
“Oh?..” “So you’re a male nurse?”
No. I’m a nurse, and I happen to be a male
Or…
“Oh?..” “Really?” “How come you’re not a doctor?”
The public’s perception of the world of nursing and it’s idea of what a nurse does is very warped and incongruent. It’s this perception that can make my job very difficult. We not only have to deal with the horribly false stereotypes at our job, but the media does not help either.
When was the last time you saw a nurse portrayed in a positive manner on TV?
Ever watch ‘House’? How about ‘Grey’s Anatomy’? Do you see nurses at all?
Educating the public is and will continue be difficult. You see, I thought the same way before I became a nurse. I was just as uninformed as the rest of the public. My eyes were opened to a world that has unlimited opportunities and an environment full of possibilities, and my passion for my job and my passion for nursing was born.
In my opinion nursing is the greatest job in the world, here’s why.
I feel blessed that I am living what I love.
The next time you see a nurse, speak with a nurse, or need a nurse. Think about what a nurse does. Think about what a nurse is. And if you can, think about this blog post. Those who know need us know us , and those who know us, know the difference.
Hi. I’m the nurse. We’ve never met.
I want to thank Mark for giving me the opportunity to share my voice with all his wonderful readers. A fellow blogger I met at the beginning of my blogging journey who has always been a joy to communicate with and follow. It is a true pleasure to share the Blogosphere with Mark.
I want to thank you for sharing your journey as an RN! The challenges that you have faced have undoubedly made you better at what you do! I know many nurses (my wonderful wife is an RN) and doctors that give SO much of their time and energy. I feel very fortunate to have met people that put out the effort to help so many!
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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackI enjoyed this post. My husband (an RN) has had a bit of a different experience because he’s always been a nurse for the Department of Corrections. I encouraged him to pursue a nursing career because it is so diverse. ER, surgery, clinical, consulting… I knew he could never get bored, and he would always have a job.
Thanks again Mark.
Nurses rock! If it weren’t for them don’t know I would have made it through my very difficult pregnancy (was in hospital, hooked up to IVs for a week).
These nurses were outstanding, constantly boosting my morale, as well as trying to help me get better.
A must read guest post, in refuting nurse stereotypes.
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As always, thank you Mark, for bringing us interesting guests. A few years ago when dealing with my mother’s illness and death, the nurses were the ones that provided the most informatioh, assistance and compassion (the doctors had their role, but both my mother and I would have been LOST without the nurses). Thank heavens for all dedicated nurses.
Very much enjoyed this. Nurses do NOT get the credit they deserve!
I LOVE this post! My husband is applying to nursing schools right now and it’s surprising how many strange looks he gets when he tells people what his plans are. Thanks for such a great blog post!
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My mother was a nurse, so I’m always aware of how hard a profession it can be. We lived in a small town and she worked for the small town doctor’s office. When ever we would go to the grocery store, church, downtown (and I use this term rather loosely), people would come up to us and greet her.
It was a little strange when so many people knew her, but I could tell, even at a young age, they had great respect for her.
Great post……………:)
Very nice post!!! I have had some great experiences with nurses. One nurse arranged my flowers in a vase while I was in the hospital. And another got me a starbuck’s latte (when she went out for one). Nurses are great!!!
I guess I’m an exception, but I’ve had the pleasure of working with plenty of nurses, male and female. When I did a six month anesthesia rotation as part of my residency, I was lucky to be assigned to a nurse(male) as my first teacher. He gave me a great anesthesia experience that serves me well to this day!
Nurses are on the frontline of the daily battle of life & death. Here in Ontario, we have a nursing shortage & I don’t know how the working nurses manage to do all they do & keep themselves energised enough to care for everyone like they do.
It’s an honorable profession & I personally think more men should take on the role. Why the hell not?
There’s not just a shortage of males nurses, there’s a shortage of nurses period! That being said, I know that the male nurses that I worked with had to put up with a lot of the same type of garbage that this post describes.
yeah i like how they say male nurse. Thats like how people say woman cop.
Kelly Turner
http://www.everygymsnightmare.com
Strong, great success is born of great passion. I love hearing your story, and thank you for setting the record straight!
Warmest,
Ken
Thank you to everyone who read and commented on this post. I am speechless at the enormously positive responses.
My cup runeth over.
I applaud you at your professional choice. I wish there was not the stereotyping but everyone should, and most do, appreciate the knowledge, hard work and dedication of nurses.
LOVELOVELOVE this post.
stereotypes be smashed.
Thanks for this post Mark. I work in a VA hospital and see that the figures are similar. There are at least 10 nurses that happen to be male here. They all are doing a great job for the group they serve.
Nurses are nurses. I’ve been cared for by female and male. All excellent and kind.
Fantastic post!
A very enlightening post. I have a friend who is a nurse and is male-but I never thought about the sterotypes connected with his job.
Nice to meet you
My mom is a nurse and I’ve had the pleasure of knowing many excellent nurses. The functions may be different (though not always!), but I think that nurses are every bit as important as doctors. So, thank you for all that you do!
And thank you, Mark, but yet another great guest post!
Nurses rock! I too have the pleasure of working among them, and although we (PT’s) have known to step on some toes (literally & figuratively) we always appreciate the work our nurses do for us and our patients!
Mark – First time reader here. Found you through Strong One’s blog. You have a nice looking site here. Keep up the good work.
Strong One – On your comment regarding the media’s portrayal of male nurses…whilst it is not entirely positive I have found quite a good example. It is from Scrubs where Elliot starts to date a male nurse for a few episodes in the second season. All the characters make fun of him for his profession but he stands up to it and overall comes across as a strong character. The jokes are still made but the character gets to fight his corner and I feel it’s a much better media portrayal of male nurses than on most TV programs.
Great, informative guest post. I see male nurses all the time locally. I like to think I know why they choose nursing over doctoring.
I have a special needs 6 year old daughter. She has had extensive medical complications and has been in a skilled nursing facility for the past year.
We have met more nurses (male & female) than most people will ever come in contact with in their lifetime. (And I’m not one to exaggerate)
First of all, I must say that I have the ultimate respect for nurses. Their job goes far beyond just a “service” that they provide.
To me the job calls for someone who is both caring/nurturing AND analytical/scientific. Caring/nurturing is usually a “female” characteristic and analytical/scientific is usually a “male” trait.
I say “usually”, but in reality, I think we are all a combination of both male and female characteristics. Because of this, I have no preference as to male or female nurse for my daughter.
In fact, during times when my daughter was critical, I preferred that she had a nurse that was more analytical than nurturing.
I could care less if they were male, female or blue or green, for that matter, as long as they could do what was needed to keep my daughter alive.
To all the nurses reading this (male & female) I would like to say Thank You. Maybe you haven’t been my daughter’s nurse – but I’m sure you’ve been someone’s nurse who didn’t get the opportunity to say that to you.
Great post! It’s good to be reminded of stereotypes we don’t often think about. When it comes down to basics, I want someone who knows their job. Gender doesn’t & shouldn’t matter!
So cool to hear his perspective.
A fantastic journey indeed! Thanks again for the fantastic feedback from everybody!
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Hi! It’s an interesting post. I salute the nurses and doctors for their great responsibilities in saving lives and taking care of the sick ones. I will faint when I see lots of blood. I really wonder how can they handle..
In my country, most nurses are females. It’s the norm that we seldom encourage males to become nurse but doctors; Females to becomes nurse instead of doctors.
Great post… I am soon to graduate and become a nurse and based on my own experiences I have heard and seen similar situations. I think ALL nurses are great and ALL offer something GREAT. but I will say this, I had the best care from nurses who are male…and my fellow male nursing student is one of the best.. so, in my eyes we are all nurses, helping those around us who require our care.
and I really think people need to look beyond the sex of someone and look at the care they provide in stead.
@Rosabel, Interesting! 🙂
@Aprillaw, Congratulations! I agree…it depends on the individual. Thank you for your feedback!
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